Dream Killers – A Good Look In The Mirror

In a previous post HERE, I waxed poetic on the subject of dream killers, and quickly covered the reasons behind some of the different types of dream killers. I mainly pointed out the “external” dream killers and a simple way to overcome them and move on with our vision… Need a quick reminder? You will find (below) an extract from the article on the Dream killers shared with you a few days ago.


“So what if you encounter any of these so-called dream killers?
Just put your blinders on. Let them judge and say whatever they want, but don’t argue. Don’t try to convince them, because you will never succeed. Let it go in one ear and out the other. Your best revenge is to get to work, doing what your heart, dreams, and mind are set on! Let your actions speak louder than your words.”

See, that’s actually the easy part when dealing with dream killers… Anything we can see in the “physical” world, we can pretty much fight and vanquish. It’s not as easy though, when it comes to that inner voice that tells you in a very quiet yet resounding tone that “You cannot do it”. That inner voice that asks you: “What if you fail?” That inner voice that always tries to convince you that “So and so tried and failed; what makes you think that YOU can!?” – That same resounding inner voice that makes you believe that “It’s getting so tough… Are you really cut out for this!?”

Yes, our number one and most dangerous dream killer is ourself; more specifically, our thoughts. The negative and most doubtful ones! The ones that play the most frequently and the loudest in our mind and that are easily fueled by the discouraging words and actions of the naysayers…

Let’s face it, the tumultuous times, just like the negative and defeating thoughts are going to come at one point; especially when the going gets tough, when business slows down, or simply when we get rejections… This is the very moment to safeguard your mind! Only feed your mind positive, encouraging, and empowering thoughts! And do this especially when you’re by yourself… You know what they say, “when you’re with others, watch your words, but when you’re by yourself, watch your thoughts!”.


Many would agree that the overflowing thoughts we have just relate to the importance of the endeavor we’re taking on. However, this process should be a balance of both positive and negative thoughts… the Pro & Con though process… the “hope for the best and plan for the worst” thought process. Unfortunately, as mentioned earlier, the negative ones play the loudest and overpower the positive ones.

However, as far as I’m concerned, the solution is quite simple. The same way we would beat the external dream killers (by changing their negative words and actions into fuel and motivation), we need to change our mindset so that the negative thoughts are sent automatically to the back of our mind. The positive, encouraging, and empowering ones have to always come up on top. “Progress is impossible without change; and those who cannot change their mind cannot change anything!”

Let’s change our mind, so we can progress past our inner dream killers… and accomplish great things!

Let’s change our minds to “I’m well able”, “All I set out to do, I can and will do!”, “No one can understand my vision as much as me or better than me!”, “I am my greatest asset!”, “This is my dream; I believe it and I’ll see it to fruition!”

Inhale confidence… Exhale doubt! Think like a winner! BE A WINNER!

“The reflection you see in the mirror is an image and a reflection of God. Remember who you are! If you ever need assurance of who you are or what you are made of, go and look in the mirror!”



  1. May 9, 2017 / 10:20 am

    You gotta let the negative roll off your back- yes! Love you in this quilted leather cap, babe!

    Le Stylo Rouge

    • Edwige
      May 9, 2017 / 11:02 am

      Yes indeed ASHLEY! Thank you for stoping by!

  2. Liz
    May 9, 2017 / 12:48 pm

    This is such a great post! I think that it’s important for people to remain confident in themselves and go after what they truly want to accomplish without fear of failure.


  3. May 9, 2017 / 8:16 pm

    Get all negatives thought, words and deeds out of our life and the rest is easy. Your face is flawless my dear. Enjoy!

  4. Jay
    May 18, 2017 / 4:12 am

    Don’t let negative thoughts control u! U r beautiful and u have a pretty smile. Stay positive!! x x x
    Cool shades too btw!

    • Edwige
      May 22, 2017 / 11:40 am

      Yes, indeed. Thanks so much for the feedback and compliments. Bisous!

  5. Shannon
    August 26, 2018 / 9:24 pm

    You look amazing! Love your hat!

    <3 Shannon 
    Upbeat Soles

    • Edwige
      August 28, 2018 / 3:14 pm

      Thanks so much Shannon! I appreciate you for stopping by and commenting! XOxo